This past election has been one of the most heated and controversial in history. Both sides have proposed some pretty strong opinions and it won’t stop now. However, if you’re looking to talk about Donald Trump’s plan of action (or lack thereof), it’s a good idea to be respectful about it. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t voice your viewpoints, just that there are some things to keep in mind when doing so. Here are some things to keep in mind for both parties.
1. Keep calm and carry on
Remember that one time you had a heated argument about third wave feminism with your crazy uncle who hasn’t read the news in 20 years? Remember how that went down? Yeah, lots of shouting. Fun fact: people don’t respond better to your opinions just because you say them loudly. It can come off as very aggressive and, in the event that the other party starts shouting, you both end up fighting more like children than mature adults. Try to be the more respectful person and remain at a level tone. It also presents an image of confidence in your stance so, bonus.
2. Patience is a virtue (seriously)
This goes along with remaining calm; you know that some people aren’t going to understand your point of view. That’s ok! It just gives you the perfect opportunity to explain it. And if they still don’t get it, explain it differently. Do this again and again because if you want people to see your side, you have to be patient enough to tell them what it is about. Think of it this way: you’re baking some delicious macaroons with the fancy technique and everything, and I walk in and ask how you make them. You can tell me and I promise you I won’t understand it the first time you tell me. I will need further explanation, maybe even an example. It is up to you whether you want me to truly understand how you make this delicious French treat or if you want me to live in ignorance. You have to have the patience to explain your point.
3. Know your stuff
This played a large factor during the last election and not always for the best reasons. With the amount of questionable media sources out there, it can be difficult to find the truth within the fluff. If you’re going to talk politics, make sure you find the facts from unbiased news sources. Trust me, it is a lot more convincing when the evidence you’re presenting can be backed up by professional news outlets who also know their shit. Sometimes this can mean actually having the articles on hand because for some reason certain people don’t want to think educated college women know what they’re talking about *the grandest of eye rolls*. Some credible sites to check out for political facts are Politico, BBC News, CNN, The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and ABC News.
4. Understand that not everyone will accept your stance
Even with all the knowledge you can dish out, some people just don’t want to listen. And that’s ok! Sort of. You can’t force your opinions on others. Like I said earlier, that simply doesn’t work. You can only educate them with the facts, explain your understanding of it and hope to make some semblance of an impact on the other party’s views. If they still don’t agree or refuse to understand, don’t push the matter. People are entitled to their beliefs. It’s kind of a constitutional right, so let people believe what they want with the knowledge you have given them. Then you can bring your viewpoints to another person. That’s how political conversations work for you and for everyone else!
So next time you find yourself in a situation where a political argument can arise, remember these points here and avoid any unnecessary turmoil!