Girl. It’s time to stop letting people who have nothing to do with you affect the way that you think, operate and live. Basically, it’s time for you to stop giving a f*ck. People are going to be miserable and worry about you no matter what you do. So why not do whatever the hell you want to do anyway? Look, things happen. Whether you did something bad to a person or did something good to a person, the outcome is the outcome and you can’t change it. You might not have done anything to a person and they still did you dirty. So, what? What’s the point of continuing to think about it? Why let them take over your thoughts and your mind every day? They’re not worth it. Especially if you didn’t do anything. If they want to make you the bad guy, let them. Their insecurity doesn’t have sh*t to do with you. Frankly, it’s their loss and they missed out on creating a relationship with a beautiful person. If someone chooses to have a problem with you, let them. You’re probably doing something right to be completely honest and you shouldn’t let someone else’s jealousy and insecurity affect you. That’s not fair to you, your emotions or your mental health. Someone is always going to have a problem with you. You may know why and you may not, but it’s how you choose to react to the situation. Don’t let them take over your thoughts and mind. Use the fuel they’re supplying you to add more to your creative fire because you cannot be contained.
You are beautiful, gorgeous and smart and people should want to have someone like you in their life. So, stop thinking of all of these ridiculous scenarios that will never happen. It’s time to focus on YOU and no one else because people who don’t appreciate you are undeserving of your time. Don’t let these people stress you out sis… If they can’t appreciate you for the good friend and person you are, it’s time to let them good and chuck up the deuces because we have no time for bullsh*t in 2020.
If there is someone who has a problem with you and won’t come to talk to you about it, that’s their problem. Not yours. They’re the one who needs to figure out how to communicate, not you. So, until they come and talk to you about it, there shouldn’t be a thought in your mind that concerns them because they’re the one with the insecurity. When they finally do come to talk to you, then we can decide if there is a further issue before we move forward. But until then, don’t let these hoes waste your time. And anyone who does waste your time, is a hoe. I don’t make the rules, I just follow them. Sorry, not sorry. But do you boo! We’re claiming peace, success and love all 2020 and no one can take that away from you. And that is on period.
Love, Whitney