Now, I know that turning 21 is a big deal and a milestone that almost everyone looks forward to, at least in the United States. And for good reason—turning 21 comes with more independence. Not only can you drink, book a hotel room, and update your license, but you are also regarded more as an adult. Most people don’t think of that beforehand, though; rather, they solely think about the fun aspects of being 21 and wish away their days in futile efforts to get there sooner.
Believe it or not, I have never bothered with wishing away the first 20 years of my life. Not to sound pretentious (I would say I’m not, but unfortunately, I am), but I never minded waiting simply for the fact that I have been too busy enjoying my current age to try to travel in time to wish it away.
But 20 is incredible in its own right. While there are no newfound tangible freedoms to be had, there is the entrance into a new decade of life and an opportunity to begin a new chapter.
Now, as I am about to turn 21 (by the time this article is published, my birthday will have already passed), I am reflecting on the remarkability of being 20. It is a time to still be figuring out who you are––starting with an open mind to trying new things. Though as a 20 year-old who lived through a pandemic, I feel like I still got to do so much this past year—I drove a jet ski, started a novel, and went skydiving. The value of the year has less to do with age and more to do with what each individual does with the year.
I was having a conversation with someone I love, and they told me that 21 is a big deal partially because it is the last birthday people look forward to––the last time it’s psychologically exciting to be a year older. I laughed, saying how excited I would be for my 22nd birthday (Taylor Swift-style). He told me that wasn’t the point; the point is that humans become excited about getting older only to an extent before their existential crises kick in.
My time as a 20-year-old during quarantine has been exactly that. I am very fortunate to come from a loving home, and it was the small moments while living with my family that made me fully appreciate just how lucky I am to be loved so much. While 20 wasn’t exactly what I could have predicted given the state of the world, it provided me with everything I didn’t know I needed.
Life, regardless of what age you are, is about making the most of what you have. Even though there wasn’t much to do during the pandemic, I embraced my time with my family and developed new music tastes, new passion projects, and more layers to my character. I loved and was loved.
Looking back, I am thankful for every second of this age, just as I am for all the moments left to come.
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