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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Albany chapter.

Ladies ever wonder why it is so hard to figure your man out.

Like why are guys so complicated. Why do we have to go out of our way to learn you again for the first time?

Guys say they want a woman to come home to and build with, but don’t put in any effort to make it work.

Don’t get me wrong there are guys who aren’t like this; very attentive, caring and great husband material, but I’m talking about the guys who are hard to understand. Some of these guys are like math problems. Long division problems. Calculus and Pythagorean Theorem problem type of dudes.

There is no way we should have this hard of a time figuring guys out. It’s tiresome. Y’all (yes you young men reading this) give us a headache. Stop it please!

 If y’all are not interested then just say that. If something is wrong then let’s talk about it. Communicate. We are not mind readers. If we see that y’all have issues and we are trying to help then don’t push us away. Let us in. We care.

 Once we are gone, we are not coming back. It’s too late. So with that being said stop being “a math problems guy”. We don’t have all day to be carrying the one and subtracting the two trying to figure y’all out.


My name is Omni Cierra Latimer. I am 23 years old. I am a Leo. My passion is writing and I want to work for a blog in the future.