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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Virginia Tech chapter.

This article is being published on my 21st birthday. Your 21st is always an exciting birthday. You can finally drink, and it’s a big milestone. I’m excited about celebrating my 21st, but I’ve also done a lot of thinking about my birthday in the sense of my year and my life. So, here is a reflection of my 20th year and my life up to this point.  

The biggest thing I did this year was transfer to Virginia Tech. I came to Blacksburg from my community college back home, so this was my first time really being away from my family. It was a big change. I left the safety net of my family, and while it worked out, it took some getting used to.

So much happened when I got to Tech. I joined Her Campus, made some friends, met my lovely significant other, found an internship and have taken classes that I truly love and found joy in. To say the least, it has been a whirlwind. 

Since being here, I have discovered that I love Blacksburg and my life at Tech. It has been a lot better than I could have expected, despite all the 3 a.m. fire alarms in the dorms and long lines at the dining halls.

It took a lot for me to get to where I am today. Like everyone, my life has been a series of ups and downs. There was a time in my life when I didn’t think I’d get to this place, a place where I was happy more often than I was sad.

I pushed through all of that and made it to the other side. But it took a lot of work, and I didn’t do it alone. I had my family to help me get through it and now my support system has grown to be even bigger.

I’m glad I was able to find my way here and find a life that I enjoy. Year 20 was good to me in so many ways. I still have a long way to go with both myself and my life. I want to thank everyone who has helped me get to where I am and those who continue to help me every day. I can’t wait to see what 21 brings me.

Emily Barber

Virginia Tech '23

I am a senior at Virginia Tech majoring in English and Creative Writing. If I'm not reading a book, I'm usually crocheting or tending to my plants.