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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Bryant chapter.

               Whether you have been in a relationship for a few years now or are just starting to date, it is important in a relationship to keep the sparks flying! Falling into a routine can be comfortable, but also dull and lacking the lust you felt initially. So spice up your romance with these ideas to keep things new and fresh in your relationship!

Give each other full body massages. This classic move is sure to ignite passion! Pick up some massage oil, light candles, and play some relaxing music. Take your time with the massages, it is all about making your partner feel good. Not only is the massage a great way to pamper each other but it is also great foreplay!

Play a dirty game together. Having fun with your partner and being naughty together is an easy way to spice up your romance! You can either buy a dirty game online or make a card game into a “strip” game. Add some of your own rules to the games to make them even more adventurous!

Learn new positions. After a while, couples tend to stick to the same sex positions. But why?! Check out your recent Cosmo or their website for some new ideas! Try multiple positions in one night, they don’t have to be acrobatic. Even try moving off the bed to a couch, chair, or table. The main goal is to do something different than what you normally do!

Be spontaneous! Routines can kill romance, so doing the unexpected will cause sparks. Pick up his favorite food or drink before you go to see him. Wake him up in the morning in a sexy way. Or even plan a day trip. Anything goes as long as it is spontaneous and unexpected!

Leave a note telling why you love them. This romantic gestures is sure to put the feels back into a relationship. Explain to the person what you love about them and what they mean to you. Leave the note somewhere they will find once you leave so it is a surprise! They can keep the note and have it as a reminder of your love.

Go on a romantic date. And no this doesn’t mean dinner and a movie. Do something different together, like go listen to a jazz band or go to a comedy night. Go winetasting or for a walk along the beach. Take a ballroom dancing lesson or even a cooking class.

Bring something into the bedroom! To make the night more interesting, buy some chocolate to eat off each other. Or go more adventurous with handcuffs or a blindfold. You both can even go shopping for items together, which would only build the anticipation for what is to come!