Hookups are definitely common in our society, especially in college. It is not weird that we get sudden sexual urges while in college and we reach out to the closest person we know to satisfy those needs. Also, lets not forget how much fun they can be since there is no romantic attachment involved… most of the time. What seems to never be brought up in conversation when speaking about hookups is the few DO’s that should be followed when getting involved with someone that will be just strictly sex.
1. Speak to your partner about getting tested for STD’s and STI’s
Hook ups are fun, no doubt, but in order for that fun to happen both you and your partner should get tested. Sexually transmitted diseases are a thing (people tend to ignore that), and the last of your worries should be one. So stay safe and get tested.
2. Establish with your partner what exactly you want
Hookups always tend to have some miscommunication about what you are both trying to get out this experience. So make sure both you and your partner are on the same page about what you guys want… just sex or sometimes maybe for it to turn into something more. If this step is not done; you guys are almost bound to have some sort of miscommunication that could end the experience on not such a good note.
3. Set rules
Rules are very important and of primary concern when getting involved with someone just sexually. Let your partner know some of your pet peeves, and things you do not want happening while this experience is happening. Without rules, things tend to not go so smooth. So for a smooth process set those rules.
Overall, the hookup experience may or may not be new to many. But these 3 simple Do’s are a little important since they will help you make this fun experience run smoother. Hookups are fun when both individuals are on the same page in every aspect; from feelings, health and just your mindset about it. So next time you think of hooking up with someone new, make sure you at least complete 2 of these tips.