Cuffing season, the annual mid-fall to early winter season where all the single ladies, pun intended, and men believe they should be in a relationship even if they are not typically one to do so. Said relationship may be super casual or could lead to something more, but for the time being it is presently the start of cuffing season. If you are looking to get involved in the infamous cuffing season, here’s a few do’s and don’ts you might want to follow:
DO: Plan some fun fall activities together
DON’T: Determine specific date nights
Although you both are in a mutual co-cuffing, date nights are a topic for serious relationships that may not always be what you and your partner are looking for. Try keeping your dates flexible, in case one of you needs a night with the pals or wants to just chill.
DO: Spend time together
DON’T: Alienate your friends
You and your partner may really like being around each other, however you have to balance your time between your friends and significant other because being the ghost friend is no fun.
DO: Hang out in group settings with your friends
DON’T: Introduce them to the parents too soon
Cuffing season is a great time to get to know someone, but it may not lead to something more. Introducing your significant other to your friends can reveal a lot about how your partner meshes with your friends without it being too serious. However, you don’t want to initiate the topic of meeting your parents too soon if it is only a temporary relationship during cuffing season.
DO: Show them appreciation
DON’T: Buy them sentimental gifts
It’s always nice to be appreciated whether it’s a friendship, or a relationship. Doing little things to show appreciation such as buying them dinner or taking them out is a good idea. But, buying them sentimental gifts such as jewelry or anything of great value may be edging into serious relationship territory.
DO: Talk to them daily
DON’T: Expect a day-long conversation everyday
As you grow up, everyone’s lives tend to acquire more responsibilities and work which results in less free time throughout the day. Being in a relationship with someone, you’re interested in being around them and knowing what they’re doing a lot. However, that may not want to talk 24/7 and the occasional text or snap may be all that works for both your busy schedules. So, don’t fret if you’re not getting a quick text back.
DO: Be clear about what you both want in the relationship “cuffship”
DON’T: get too attached if what you agreed on isn’t something too serious
No matter what relationship you’re in, it’s always good to communicate with each other. Informing your partner of what you want and/or would like out of the relationship is healthy because you don’t want to end up feeling left out of your own relationship. But investing too much emotion in it when you or your partner may not feel as strongly can be dangerous. Make sure both of you are on the same page for cuffing season.
Although there seem to be a ton of boundaries set within cuffing season and what defines the type of relationship, being with someone you like is overall a great time. Remember that no matter what relationship you get yourself into, you should always stay true to yourself & most importantly, be happy and have fun.