2022 has been a big year for me, as I’m sure it has been for many others. This was the year that I started a new chapter in my life and started college, which has also left me often pondering the things I took advantage of without realizing. There is so much to be thankful for, yet we often forget to express that thankfulness. Writing down your thoughts and the aspects of your life you are grateful for is crucial. It forces you to consider issues and lends some substance to your ideas. This is how I’m going to answer the age-old Thanksgiving question, “What Are You Thankful For?”
To start, I’m thankful for having the opportunity to attend college. I’m a first-generation college student, so not only is this new for me, but it’s new for my family. They did not have the opportunity to go to college, but I did. I worked hard during high school to be where I am now, attending Cal Poly San Luis Obispo. I’ve met many great people here, and it’s pushed me to become a better version of myself. I often wonder what my younger self would think of me now, how proud I would be of myself that I’ve made it this far and achieved my dreams as well as my family’s. I suggest taking a moment to think about your college experience and what adventures it’s brought you; there are sure to be many moments you think about and smile fondly at. These are all things to be thankful for, and although I haven’t been in college for long, I’ve already felt myself mature and grow as an individual.
Second, I’m thankful for my family. This seems obvious to some, but it goes much deeper than you might think. My family has always supported me through thick and thin; they have always been my number one supporters. I would not be where I am today if it wasn’t for them. Sometimes I wouldn’t understand why they did what they did; I was often left angry at them and confused, but I know now that it was all out of love. They were doing their job – being parents. I never fully grasped how much my family supported and loved me until I left for college. I’m thankful for the home-cooked meals, family outings, movie nights, and the unconditional love they showed me. Words honestly cannot describe how grateful I am for my family, especially my parents. Mom, and Dad, if you’re reading this, thank you for being you.
Third, I’m thankful for my friends. Although my hometown friends and I have parted ways, we still are closer than ever. We update each other on our lives, call often, and still make it a point that we are best friends. It’s hard to stay in touch when moving away and having your own life and experiences around you, but having friends who try to keep in touch is heartwarming. I miss them every day and can’t wait to reunite for Thanksgiving. I’m also thankful for the new friends I’ve made in college. Although I’ve only known them for a short while, they make me laugh and smile like none other. Friendship is often overlooked and underappreciated. Take a moment to send your friend a text or a quick call, tell them you miss them, or appreciate them.
Lastly, I’m thankful for my significant other. That man makes me laugh and smile like there’s no tomorrow, shows me unconditional love, and is always there when I need him most. It’s fantastic to be able to navigate college with someone by my side, even if he is two states away. We went through high school together, the college application process, becoming adults – the list goes on and on. I couldn’t have asked for a better partner in crime. He truly makes me feel so special and loved; I am irrevocably in love with him as he is with me. This kind of love is something I’m genuinely thankful for each and every day. Love really does make the world go round, and whether it be platonic or romantic, everyone deserves some love. I encourage you to reach out to those you love and let them know you’re thankful for them and that you love them too.
As we approach Thanksgiving, I encourage you to reflect on what you’re genuinely grateful for over this break. After all, cultivating thankfulness and mindfulness is meant to benefit your mental health, but it’s also opportunely for the people around you. Send your loved ones a text to tell them how much you value them. You might also sincerely express gratitude to your parents for everything they do for you; they will appreciate it. Reader, always remember that you, too, are appreciated.