It takes only three seconds for someone to glance at you or have a quick conversation with you to form a first impression. You may be having a bad day and aren’t feeling very sociable, or maybe you woke up late and didn’t have time to do your hair. Whether it be a first date, job interview, or simply making a new friend in class, you will never get a second chance to make a first impression. Here are some tips to keep in mind when meeting someone for the first time.
- Be positive: Nobody wants to hang around a Debbie Downer. If you are complaining non-stop and being negative upon meeting someone new, they will most likely not want to be around you again.
- Be courteous/attentive: For example, if you’re in class not listening to your teacher and texting the whole time, she will most likely not take you seriously. It’s crucial to always be courteous and attentive to those giving you their time, you never know when you might need something in return from them.
- Smile: Smiling is contagious. By keeping a smile on and a positive mood to match it, you will become more likable to people.
- Be confident: If you’re in an interview, confidence is key. Confidence reveals that you know your identity and know what you are capable off. This trait is very attractive to employers. Indecisiveness and low self-esteem will probably not get you very far.
- Be on time: For a meeting, interview, or even just a social gathering, punctuality goes a long way. Being late to a planned event shows disinterest and disrespect.
Take these tips into consideration no matter who you are meeting or where you are meeting them. You never know who they are connected with and what they might tell others about you. So next time you think about back-talking your boss or simply blowing somebody off at a party, remember that same nasty attitude you give them will be what you are represented as to their network of co-workers or friends.