For those of you who thought the awkward, pimply, not-quite-yet-fully-developed age of thirteen was horrifying, I dare you to compare it with being twenty. It seems like a decent age. There’s a hint of independence, a plethora of opportunities and limitless new people and places to see, but when it comes to having a legitimate social life, being twenty is frankly appalling.
Suddenly you find yourself terribly bored at parties where an iPod serves as a DJ and cheap beer only guarantees a bad hangover the next morning. Then you start to see your 21-year-old friends experience the glitz and glamour of Philadelphia’s nightlife – the clubs, the bars, the party-girl scene. Jealously sets in and a year feels like a life-time away. You’re at a stand-still, embarrassingly in between two very different phases of your life.
First off, those nights you would have spent partying, you’ll end up with the few friends that matter. The people who are just as fun outside the confines of a dimly lit basement, those are the keepers and they’ll stick with you through every awkward age. On top of that, you might actually meet a reliable significant other, someone compatible with you and interested in your life adventures. In case you haven’t noticed, that type doesn’t usually show up at parties where shots of Vladimir are involved. And lastly, you might get to know yourself a little better.
Why not spend a weekend night alone? Do something you really enjoy that doesn’t involve alcohol.