I wish I did not take for granted when people told me “four years of college flies by, enjoy it while you can.” I would laugh, nod my head, and say, “I know! That’s what everyone keeps telling me!” Actually, I knew nothing, so that was a complete lie.
While looking back on old pictures, social media posts and talking with my housemates, I wish I knew everything I know now at 21. Here is a brief list of wise tips from a once not so wise freshman:
1. You really do not need to wear a crop top out every night. Wear what you want and what you feel comfortable in, you will be much happier in the long run.
2. Transitioning smoothly from number one: DO NOT wear a bandage skirt with flip flops! (So we are clear, I never did this. I was just an innocent bystander.)
3. That kid over there talking to fifteen girls may be cute, but did you forget the part about him talking to fifteen other girls?
4. It is OK to go home for a weekend or stay in one night if you really need it! FOMO is indeed real, but the same stories, parties, and scandals will be there next weekend. Pinky promise.
5. You won’t look weird if you spend a lot of time in the library. You will feel a lot better about yourself when you’re focused and getting great grades!
6. No one is out to get you; that other group of girls who stares at you does not hate you and your friends; you are stuck living with these people for four years. Grow up, get over yourself, and go make some new friends. This is not high school anymore.
7. Stay genuine to who you are no matter what. It gets hard at times, but you need to remember that although others and their opinions are constantly trying to get to you, your own actions and attitude are what really matters. Be yourself, and you can never go wrong.