Biting. Whenever my roommate and I talk about the subject, we both grin like Cheshire Cat, with a huge smile stretched across our faces. It’s a topic that many people don’t really discuss when they are talking about their turn-ons and turn-offs. It’s something that can be the sole cause of sending someone over the edge, or have them running for the door. It can be sexy, erotic, and extremely passionate, but only when done right; much like many other forms of foreplay. For many of my girl friends and I, biting is something we wished more people would be open to. We don’t mean biting to draw blood. We aren’t trying to go True Blood on you. It’s just in the heat of the moment, when the adrenaline is pumping and you feel your blood coursing through your veins, and every sense is heightened, a little nibble on his (or her) lower lip, collarbone, or inner thigh, may just be the thing that makes this sexcapade all the more memorable.
Never tried biting? Well get ready because this information may just blow your mind (or more importantly, your partner’s). Some women really enjoy light biting, or a little nibble depending on their tolerance level, on their breasts, inner thighs, earlobes, or anywhere that may be a little sensitive to the touch. A friend of mine once dated a guy who went crazy when she would graze his shoulder with her teeth and then follow up with a light bite in the middle of their hook-up. It’s the unexpectedness of biting that makes it so exciting. However, it’s smart to start off with smaller, lighter, bites when trying it with someone for the first time. You do not want to scare them away by biting too hard and accidentally drawing blood. That’ll be a quick end to amazing foreplay that has the potential to be game changing sex.
Start off with leaving a trail of kisses on their lips, or down their stomach or chest. Then follow up with a light bite on their lower lip, collarbone, inner thigh, or any other erogenous zone. See their response and then proceed accordingly. Hopefully this’ll lead to sharp, passionate gasps and lip-biting moans! However, if the response isn’t as you wanted, then move on and try and recapture the moment. Don’t let it ruin the fun!
However, here’s a little tip: for ladies, breasts are much more sensitive during sex, so light to medium pressure biting would be all the more pleasurable. For men, the inner thighs are one of the most sensitive areas of a man’s body, and definitely deserve a little attention!
So have at it ladies and gents!
Until Next Time My Lovelies,
Nahja xxx
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