When college students are asked what they miss most about being home, common responses include their friends, family, bed, and last but certainly not least, their dog. Growing up with a dog for the majority of your life and then moving to a dorm where the only pet you can have is that fish you bought with a coupon is a sad reality. But, finally the day comes when you move off-campus and can adopt a dog of your own.
1. The Homecoming Stage
You’ve done your research and have finally found the pup for you. You bring him home and can’t wait to see him settle down in his new digs. Every one of your friends will flock to your apartment to get a glimpse of your newest roommate. They’ll burst through the door with their phones ready to add photos and videos galore to their Snapstory and will only ask you questions about the dog. Let’s face it; they’re here to see that canine, not you.
2. The Honeymoon Stage
You decide that having your own furball has been the best decision you’ve ever made. You always have someone to welcome you when you get home from a hard day of classes and he won’t care if you just failed that midterm or broke the 5-second rule for the last brownie (oops). The strangers on the street that normally rush past you stop and admire your companion. You’re proud to say that he’s yours and you walk a little taller on your way home, despite carrying a bag of dog poop that could wipe out a small nation with its stench.
3. The “What did I get myself into?” Stage
Having a dog sleep on the end of your bed is great until he wakes up every morning at 7 a.m. and barks, slobbers, and nudges you until you get up. You also forgot that dogs still have to go out in the dead of winter. You had convinced yourself that you don’t have to go to the gym because you exercise at least three times a day from taking your dog out, but it’s also because you don’t have any time. You’ve stopped going to Rebecca’s every day because you have to save money for your dog’s food. Goodbye Tuscan Turkey, you’ve moved on to lamb and bacon flavored kibble.
4. The Turnaround Stage
You realize that almost all of your decisions now revolve around the dog in your life, but you’re okay with it. The early mornings, accidents in the house, chewed up shoes, and fur covering every surface in your apartment are frustrating in the moment but worth it in the long-run. You have to make sacrifices, but knowing that you have a loyal partner by your side for the next 15 years or so makes having a dog of your own invaluable.
If you’re interested in adopting a dog, please make sure you do all your research first. If you can’t afford to take in the dog or will not have enough time to dedicate to it, hold off until you’re 100% capable. It’s not fair to the dog and will not be a good experience for you. Try dog sitting first to see if you can handle it. But, if you are responsible enough and have the resources, congratulations! Enjoy every minute of it!