Statistically, straight women cum the least. According to a new study carried out by Indiana University, Chapman University, and Claremont Graduate University, straight women come in last at a whopping 65% of time compared to their male counterparts at 95%. This could be the result of a few things, mainly that straight men (overall) are selfish lovers and injury to ego that this could cause for the man. In addition to this, many straight men simply do not know anything about sex aside from what they see in porn, what other men have told them, and things that please them.
Generally speaking, boys go through puberty between the ages of 10-16 and begin watching porn and masturbating shortly after that. In the typical straight porn movie, there is little to no foreplay and oral sex is centered around the man. If there is a woman on the receiving end of oral sex, the technique is not made for the woman’s enjoyment but for the viewer’s pleasure. This is the major problem with learning about sex from watching straight porn, the purpose that it serves is not for the enjoyment of the actors but for the viewer’s pleasure.
Ladies, you have to explain to your partner (if you care about the relationship) that the journey to the female orgasm is like a scenic road trip in the middle of a northern winter. Before leaving the starting point, the driver has to brush the car off and warm it up. When the driver is en route, he has to adjust to the road and weather conditions (i.e. your body). Let him know that unlike his body, the first destination may not be the last.
In a twitter poll, the number 1 area where men lacked at was foreplay with penetration as number 3 with the choices of foreplay, oral sex, and penetration. I believe that aside from the ignorance and selfishness, this is due in part to men being aroused very easily. A man believes that when he is aroused, it’s time for penetration or at least (in his mind) oral sex that he receives. The only thing that I can advise to change this (if you would like) is to tell them. There’s no other way that your lover will ever learn because in their mind, they either don’t care or they actually believe that they are doing fine.
Everyday, the man’s ego is stroked for the bare minimum. The preservation of a man’s precious ego is not worth you not reaching an orgasm. Don’t fake it. If he thinks that he is giving you the best cunnilingus of your life and he’s really just slobbing on your labia; tell him where your clit is. If he thinks that he’s going to get head without giving because he thinks it is nasty, tell him to come back when he grows up. Most of the time, men do not want to do better for the sake of their lovers so it would probably be best to demand more or move on. Do not tolerate mediocrity from men.