College is a new, exciting, and time-consuming experience. For many, it’s the first time that they’re on their own, navigating the world of full-time classes, jobs, and stress. It seems overwhelming. It’s easy to decide that you don’t have time to join an organization, find friends, or get involved on campus, but that’s a mistake! Whether you are an incoming freshman leery of joining a club or a senior who feels it’s too late to get involved, meeting new people has enormous perks!
Social Life
While the ultimate goal of attending university is to graduate with a degree in a field that you love, why not enjoy the journey? College is a place to meet life-long friends and, for some, even future spouses. Meeting new people can open up countless social opportunities: movie nights, bonfires, tailgates, etc., but it can also provide a good reason for you to leave your dorm. So, join a club, hang out on campus, find your people, and if you decide the social scene isn’t for you, at least you had some photographable moments and some fun stories.
Mental Health
As anyone who has taken any university courses can tell you, college can be stressful. That’s why finding a support system is super important. You’re in the middle of a bad week. Your car broke down. Your drowning in homework. Your favorite TV show just got canceled. Regardless of the issue, having people to talk or simply coexist with can help tremendously. Whether it’s a therapist, a friend, a professor, or a classmate, find someone to share your emotions with. Socializing gives you people, who will cry with you and encourage you, so reduce your mental breakdowns, and find someone to breakdown alongside.
GPA
It’s the first day of class, and complete strangers are on either side of you. It might not be your first instinct, but talk to them! Exchange numbers. While introducing yourself isn’t the most comfortable experience, making friends, or at least acquaintances, in your classes is a grade saver! If you miss a class or don’t understand an assignment, these strangers suddenly become your lifeline. Besides, when finals get here you’re going to need a study buddy or a study village for that matter.
Jobs
In the professional world, they call it networking, but making connections now can benefit your future. It may be hard to believe it, but the girl, in your group project who forgets her notes all the time, might one day be a thriving professional in your field. The professor, whose office hours you avoid, writes great letters of recommendation. That club you’re reluctant to join looks great on a resume. So talk to her, drop by, and join! You have nothing to lose, but everything to gain!
Communication. It’s not always easy, but it’s worthwhile!