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14 Signs That You’re the Hot Mess of Your Friend Group

Every friend group has one — and if you can’t figure out who it is, it’s probably you. Don’t believe us? Check out these 14 signs that you are indeed the hot mess of your BFFs.

1. You’re always the one everyone has to take care of

2. You’re the first one to text the group chat asking about plans for the night

3. You never learn your limit

4. Your friends constantly say you need an intervention

5. All your friends make you share your location with them indefinitely on iMessage

6. You have woken up with unimaginably expensive Uber receipts

7. Your friends instinctively bring you extra napkins when they know there is food involved

8. They text you “here” when they’re 10 minutes away because you’re always running late

9. Your friends don’t know how you’re still in college

10. You are called to your sorority’s board of standards on a weekly basis

11. Your mom texts your friends to find out where you are

12. Family holidays are just a day-long excuse for your relatives to judge your poor life decisions


13. Waking up before noon is considered a big accomplishment in your book

14. The morning after breakfast dates with your crew are just rundowns of what you did the night before

Face it: you ARE the hot mess of your friend group — and there’s nothing wrong with that.

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Paige Herer

U Mass Amherst

Paige Herer is a junior at Penn State. She is majoring in public relations and political science with a minor in international studies with hopes of pursuing a a career in PR after graduation. Her business aspirations include but are not limited to becoming Olivia Pope. She has a passion for reading, drinking coffee, long car rides, and scrolling through online blogs for hours. When Paige isn't being ridiculously productive you can find her walking aimlessly around campus trying to figure out how to operate her DSLR camera, or in her tiny dorm room marathoning any and every John Hughes movie.