We have all been told that condoms should be used correctly and consistently every time you have sex in order to prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STIs) and unintended pregnancies. These two factoids are vital for maintaining your sexual health, but there are even more reasons why condoms add to a fulfilling sex life. Condoms don’t have to be a burden, but rather a tool to enhance sex play and strengthen the trust of your relationships. For instance, consider the following::
It Shows He Cares: Even if he isn’t your boyfriend, if he wears a condom, it could show that he’s concerned about your health and his. Also, you get to avoid the anxiety afterwards of wondering who he has been with. Both points make the experience more enjoyable.
Condom Application Can be Foreplay: True, it is not the most pleasurable experience, but putting on the condom sends the message that something is about to happen. Some guys find it sexy when a woman puts it on. This is a good habit to get into, anyway, because then you’ll know if it has been put on correctly.
It Shows that You Take Control: Confident, take-charge women are sexy women. Going for what you want and refusing to give in otherwise can beis enticing.
He Can Last Longer: Often, men complain that condoms don’t allow sex to be as pleasurable for them. It is true that condoms do reduce some stimulation;, however this can be beneficial to both parties. Less stimulation results in delayed finish. That means more fun for you both and more confidence for him.
Condoms Are Trendy: Safe sex advocacy is gaining loads of attention on the public stage. You may remember hip hop group TLC’s efforts in the 90’s and early 2000’s. Band member, Lisa “Left-Eye” Lopez often performed decorated in condoms, and in a 1992 interview Rozonda “Chili” Thomas stated that “condoms are a part of everyday life.” Proper Attire condoms have package art from a handful of famous designers. They also sell fitted T-shirts so that you can spend the message outside of the bedroom.
So Darn Cheap at Sindecuse: At the Sindecuse Pharmacy, WMU students can pick up a dozen condoms for $3. With such a great bargain, you might as well take advantage!
Set an Example: When your friends know that you are always making him wear one, they may gain assurance that it’s something you should always insist on. Making healthy choices for you and your partner encourages your loved ones to do the same.
They Give You More Time to Decide Whether You (and Your Partner) Actually Want to Have Sex: When under the influence or caught up in the moment, choices can be made that one could regret later. Employing Ccondom use gives both partners another minute or so to think about what is happening and decide if it is a good idea. Also, if he refuses, then you know that he doesn’t care about your health and you can reevaluate your intentions.
Using Condoms Regularly Can Intensify Intimacy Later: Humans are jealous creatures. Despite the fact that premarital sex is common and endorsed increasingly accepted by society, often members ofcouples in a serious relationship may question the intimacy of their union if the other has had other previous lovers. If the relationship progresses to the point where each person trusts each the other, are they both get tested, and decide to rely on other contraception;, it will be more meaningful if condoms were used with all other partners.
Experimentation Can be Fun: Shopping and trying out condoms can be as fun as finding a perfect bra or mascara. Different flavors, and textures and stimulation substances can add an exciting twist to sex play. You and your partner will have a blast finding which condom suits you both.
No one can make these choices for you and no one can live outdeal with the potential consequences of unsafe sex (though no sex is completely safe) for you either. However, having an arsenal of reasons to use condoms (or dental dams as well) regularly and consistently will help you determine which sexual habits are best for you.
Editor: Gena Reist