Surviving Valentine’s Day Single

Yes it’s the time of year again, Valentine’s Day. For some of you it means presents, candy, and flowers. For others, 'it’s a reminder of how lonely you are’ as the old saying goes. For those of you who are not the biggest fans of Valentine's Day here’s a reminder to why it’s great to be single and some fun things to do to remind you why it’s great being single.

First off, before making plans for your ‘single’ valentine’s day remember why it’s awesome not being in a relationship. Here's a refresher in case all the Valentine's Day love made you forget:

Independence – You control your own life. Unlike when you’re in a relationship, you don’t have to plan your schedule around someone else. There is no one constantly checking up on you; asking you what you’re doing, who you’re with, when you’ll be back, etc. Annoying, right? There is no one to tell you what to do and what not to do. Being single is like coming to college. You no longer having someone watching what you do. If you want to talk to a guy you can, if you want to be friends with a guy you can. Being single = being in control, and who doesn’t love being in control?

Finding yourself – I know, ‘finding yourself’ sounds like something out of self-help but its true. With the independence that you get from being single you also are able to realize who you are, what you like, what you want. People in relationships tend to lose themselves in the other person; you adapt to who that person is and that can change who you are. The longer you are single, the better you get to know yourself. You develop your true character which results in a better self-awareness. So as you search for Mr. Right, you’ll better know what you want and you’re much less likely to settle for someone less.

No drama – Think back to when you were in a relationship with Mr. Wrong, remember the fights, the tears, and the hurt? Well you get to avoid that! Being in a relationship comes with a lot baggage and expectations and if you’re not with Mr. Right then it’s not worth it to be hurt by it. Fighting with a boyfriend, whether it’s started by you or him always leads to hurt which only leads to more negativity in a relationship. You can go out talk to guys; stay out late and there will be no drama or repercussions the next day.

Now that you’ve reminded yourself that you’re awesome and so is being single, make some fun V-Day plans. Remember to stay optimistic!

Have a girls’ day – Go out with your other single friends and pamper yourself! Get your nails and hair done or get a massage. Making yourself look and feel good will make you feel better about yourself and being single. Follow up the pampering with a little shopping. Buy yourself a hot outfit to wear for the next time you go out! The outfit along with your high level of confidence might attract Mr. Right the next time you go out. Remember that when you’re out, avoid couple filled places like restaurants and movie theaters.

Celebrate! – Go out and celebrate being single (and maybe meet some single guys)! Huskies is hosting a Puppy Love Bar Night on Sunday night (make sure you get your work done) from 9 p.m. to 1 a.m. Not only are there drink specials ($2 drafts Miller and Coors, and $3 drink) but there will also be a $50 Victoria’s Secret door prize! So get dressed up and go out to the bar.

Sure, no chocolate or flowers on Valentine’s Day from someone you love might seem depressing; but, having a positive attitude and remembering why being single is great the other 364 days of the year will keep your morale up and get you through the day. Resist the urge put on the Notebook and doing something fun! Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couple to express their love for each other but it is also for people who are single to realize why they love themselves.