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12 Stages of Breakups As Told By John Mayer Songs

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at UCF chapter.

Even the cleanest breakups lead to an innevitable whirlwind of emotions. Friends, frozen yogurt, and netflix are all very helpful during times of distress, but sometimes music is able to heal in a way that can’t be matched. Thankfully, we have John Mayer to guide us through all the feels. 

 

Split Screen Sadness

You’ve been fighting more and more lately, and you’re getting tired of it all. For what might be the first time in your relationship, you’re starting to wonder whether or not you’re right for each other. There’s nothing worse than not knowing.

Heartbreak Warfare 

Can you believe what they said while you were fighting? You thought they would never treat you like that. But all is fair in love and war. To be honest, you’ve probably said some things you regret, too.

 

Slow Dancing in a Burning Room 

You know things are coming to an end, and it feels different than the fights you’ve had before. You’re frustrated because you know you love them, but it just doesn’t feel right any more.

 

Edge of Desire 

Well, it’s happened. You’re crying and you can’t really explain why. You’re probably also sitting on your bedroom floor deciding which of their old tee shirts you’re going to wear to bed. No judgment here.

I’m Gonna Find Another You

The shock has worn off and you’re angry! Who needs them anyway? You’ll find somebody who understands you and treats you as well as you deserve.  

 

Emoji of a Wave 

You’ve been staring at your phone, wishing their name would pop up like it always does. Then, when they finally text you, you’re left feeling even worse than before.

Love on the Weekend

Uh oh, this is the danger zone. Stop thinking about happy memories, it won’t get you anywhere. Stop thinking about how excited you used to get before you saw them. Those butterflies can be very manipulative.

In Your Atmosphere

You constantly see reminders of your ex. Everywhere you look, there are restaurants and cities are tainted with happy memories.

XO

It’s hard to push the good times out of your head. In your saddest moments, your heart will want to remember the best times rather than the worst. Try your best to remember your relationship as it was, instead of as it could have been. 

Friends, Lovers, or Nothing

When you’re trying to maintain some type of friendship after, but its kind of messy. Being friends is hard after you’ve been so much more. You don’t really want to be nothing, either.

 

In Repair

Your friends keep telling you that the easiest way to get over someone is to find someone else. You aren’t so sure your heart is ready, though. They say time will heal everything.

The Heart of Life

After a while, you’re starting to realize breaking up was the right thing to do. Gradually, you gain back your sense of optimism and you have faith that someday you’ll find “the one.”

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