1. You find out who you really care about
Your friends are now spread out all around Davis, so you stay in touch with those you want to keep around and your circle of friends becomes more defined.
2. You have to learn how to feed yourself
The convenience of the DC is not there any more for a quick bite or social hour with friends. You actually have a kitchen now!! While it is difficult to start cooking after being fed for year, getting to choose your own meals, learn to experiment with ingredients, and cooking with friends is irreplaceable.
3. There is even more independence
No more RA’s, no more quiet hours, no more living with 80 other people, you can go off campus more frequently, and your parents start to trust you and your college life a little more. With these changes comes more responsibility, but also the freedom that comes with creating your own space and schedule.
4. You have to make more of an effort to be social
Your friends don’t live down the hall from you anymore. To see people, you have to make more concrete plans, which can be difficult sometimes, but it makes hanging out with those you make time for more special.
5. Almost daily awkward interactions become inevitable
You’ll run into people you used to only say hi to in the DC or dorm halls, now that you’re out what do you do when you see them? Keep your phone close by to avoid making any eye contact or opt for the casual head nod.
6. You figure out your weekend activities
Most people make a few (or more) party mistakes the first year. Not to say these wild nights don’t continue after, but you begin to learn your limits and when they should and shouldn’t be pushed.
7. You spend more time on campus
Going back to the dorms between classes was so easy. After your first year you live further away, so it is a lot simpler just to stay and hang out around campus. This allows you to run into old friends, appreciate the Coho, find the perfect study spot, and truly appreciate how beautiful this campus is.
8. Your study habits become more concrete
After a year, you are able to focus your studies on more of what you are interested in. You also figure out what study habits work the best for you. It is comforting to figure out a routine and take more of the classes you enjoy.
9. You start thinking about the future
The safety net of being able to say, “I’m just a freshman” goes away and the countdown to figure out your major and path begins. This can be stressful, but it is also exciting to make plans and open yourself up to more opportunities (Side Note: No one really knows what they’re doing still no matter what grade)
10. You fall in love with Davis even more
Coming back after your first year can feel like coming home. You learn the ins and outs of Davis and make it yours, following what you felt passionate about freshman year while continuing to explore.
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