One of the most intriguing questions that a new student asked me at the beginning of this semester was, “How do you make friends?” That’s a very interesting question that most students tend to think about. Have no fear! It’s never too late and there’s someone out there for you! Embrace the awkward encounters that might turn into lifelong friendships.
1. Dining Halls
They are the main hub to meet freshman who are just as excited about college as you are. Head on over to Crossroads, Cafe 3, or even Foothill and Clark Kerr if you’re up for the walk. There are also freshman who completely regret their choice of college so there’s someone for everybody.
Don’t worry upperclassmen! There are plenty of upperclassmen in the dining halls as well. A friendly freshman would most likely swipe you just to talk to you. ;) Crossroads is the haven for those who are on too tight of a budget to eat out, too lazy to cook, too busy to cook, or a combination of those.
2. Classes: Discussion, Study Groups, and Exams
Meeting friends in the classroom can be a daunting experience especially with the hundreds of faces you see everyday. Talk to your neighbor in discussion or in lab. It’s always good to have a buddy in those smaller groups especially for group work. For STEM students, your classes will only get harder so studying is crucial. Form study groups with other bright students as soon as possible so you can all spend time together while working towards a common goal- of not failing. That’s Chem 1A for you, folks!
3. Dorms
The dorms are meant to be social so knock on a few doors and say hello. It might be a little awkward at first or a LOT awkward, but it never hurts to try. It’s good to get to know everyone before the onslaught of midterms. Quick! Say hi to your neighbor right now. For transfer students living in the freshman dorms, there will be other transfer students as well, but don’t limit yourself! There are defi nitely some cool freshmen (at least from what I heard.)
4. Clubs and other Campus Organizations
It’s proven that students who are involved in something on campus are more likely to do better academically, socially, and emotionally. Join something! Anything that might seem interesting to you and get ready to meet some awesome people! We welcome everyone with open arms at Her Campus!