It happens every day to the people who least expect it. This unavoidable situation somehow manages to smack us in the face, creating one of the most uncomfortable scenarios on Earth: awkward eye contact with strangers. It can hit you while walking down the street, sitting in class or during church – but no matter the location, it doesn’t get any less painful. I’ve had my fair share of these experiences, so, lucky for you, I’m going to share how to make the best out of this accidental eye contact.
1. Flash your chops
Smiling is probably one of the easiest things to do in this situation. Immediately following what I like to call the “uh-oh” – that moment when you and a stranger realize you are looking into each other’s eyes – you should flash a smile and look away. A simple smile, with or without teeth, should do – but try not to give too big of a smile that could leave a creepy impression. Do not, and I mean DO NOT, look back after looking away. It’s pointless to double-check that the uncomfortable moment is over because you risk starting over at square one if they happen to still be watching.
2. Wink, Wink
There’s always going to be the chance that the person your eyes meet with isn’t half-bad looking, which means it’s time to bring in the wink. Unfortunately this isn’t always the case, so I wouldn’t advise using this move unless a Brad Pitt look-alike is making eyes at you. If you are the lucky girl who finds herself facing someone who may be your future husband, a wink might be your best friend. Who knows, you might get his number, which will be followed by many dates and maybe even a big, beautiful wedding. Then again, you might not and get a “she’s weird” stare instead, followed by a wave of personal shame. Warning: use at your own risk.
3. Compliment
“You have really pretty eyes.” Trust me, everyone loves compliments! Guys often tell us that we don’t look fat in our jeans or how great our hair looks, but it is very rare that a girl gives a guy a compliment on his shirt. Instead of trying to avoid the moment, why not take advantage of it? You don’t have to explain yourself, or even introduce yourself, but I do recommend it: “I really like your jeans” or “your shoes are really nice. I’m [insert your name here].” You really can’t go wrong with this move, unless you are bad at giving compliments.
Sometimes it’s just inevitable, but even in this situation, you will live because the chances of running into that same person again are slim to none. Remember it’s only awkward if you make it awkward.
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Texas chapter.