In order to grow and develop as humans, it is crucial that we try new things and engage in new experiences. Think of all the “firsts” you’ve endured in your lifetime. The first steps you took, the first time riding a bike, your first heartbreak, and so on. On August 28th, 2016, I stepped out of my comfort zone and was ready to participate in a major first. I left a small farm town and headed to the big city of Boston to attend Suffolk University. Though a little nervous to begin my journey in the city, I was ready to take on the new adventures and opportunities that awaited me. Surviving my first week of college was no easy task. There were things I needed to learn (and quickly too) about the city of Boston and college itself. As you can see, I live to tell the tale about my first week of college, so everything worked out with a little hard work, determination, and of course a few mistakes.
Before I could learn how to survive college, I had to learn the do’s and don’ts of Boston. First thing I learned, was to ALWAYS wear comfortable shoes. Yes, the sandals do look cuter, but your feet will be thanking you if you rock some sneakers instead. Safe to say that trying to trek up the Beacon Street hill with flip flops is something I will never be doing again. Next, I learned to not let what the people on the street say get under my skin. Sure, they might make you feel bad for not giving them spare change, but not giving into them doesn’t make you a bad person. The best advice I received was to simply ignore them and keep walking. I also learned, that it is important to always be prepared financially. As an avid coffee drinker, I was quite upset when I noticed that the Dunkin Donut’s coffee here costs more, but I suddenly came to realize that everything costs more. I understand now that I’m going to need to save money and not spend frequently so that I am able to purchase necessities. The most important thing I’ve learned about Boston, is that it is quick and happening as everyone is on the go all the time. I know I need to pay attention, be aware of my surroundings, and move quickly in order to keep up with the city and its livelihood.
I figured learning the do’s and don’ts of Boston would be the hardest part. I always knew college was different than high school in many aspects, but there were things I wasn’t aware of. Did you know that you don’t have to ask to go to the bathroom? I’ll never forget the confused look on my professor’s face the first time I asked. There is much more freedom and independence as a college student. With that being said, it became important for me to understand that I was on my own. My parents aren’t going to be there to remind me to get my work done. Developing time management is crucial in college and the faster you learn it, the better you’ll become at it. Setting up a solid schedule of when to do homework my first week of college has helped me be successful in getting my assignments done on time these first few weeks. The other aspect of living on your own is being responsible for feeding yourself as mom and dad are not there to cook for you. I wanted to believe that the freshman fifteen was just a myth, but after eating dining hall food for just three days, I can tell you that it’s very real. I didn’t know how I was going to survive this one. As the week went on, I eliminated one meal per day in the dining hall by eating cereal in my dorm or making easy mac in the microwave. You have to make the best of what you’ve got. So, my first week at college and in Boston was filled with ups and downs, but I survived and am ready continue new adventure!