This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at PSU chapter.
Being a new member in a sorority, especially at Penn State, can be very overwhelming. The process of getting a Big in your sorority provokes a lot of anxiety, but it is more than worth it in the end. She becomes your person and family away from home – she truly is your best friend.
Your Big deserves lots of love, and here is why:
- She supplied you with endless decorations for your dorm.
- She gives you endless advice.
- She listens to your complaints about the same stupid guy for months.
- She lets you stay in her apartment when you’re having a rough night.
- She is your gym buddy.
- She always answers her phone.
- Her closet is your closet.
- Her food is your food.
- She always brings you goodies from her weekend home.
- She helps you with the classes she has already taken.
- She gives you a lot of clothes.
- She gets food with you in the freshman dining commons.
- She will stay in and watch movies with you.
- She is your biggest cheerleader.
- She welcomed you into her family with open arms.
- She is always good for a “like” on social media.
- She shares her music with you.
- She is honest with you.
- She is Biggie.
- She loves her Smalls.
There are so many more reasons to appreciate and love your Big because she does so much for you. She makes your sorority feel smaller and provides new members with a sense of belonging. I love my Biggie for the person she is, and I hope everyone has that feeling too.