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5 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Point Park chapter.

Have you ever fallen head over heels for someone? They are all you think about. You’re singing the love songs in the shower. Dancing around the house. Even tweeting the heart eyes emoji (yes, some people fall that deep). What if though, that guy you’re falling for isn’t feeling the same way? He maybe thinks your cling or annoying, and just doesn’t want anything to do with you. Ladies (and gentlemen) it’s time you heard the top 5 signs you know your crush isn’t into you. Falling for people sucks, and sometimes you just need to know, sometimes, He’s Just Not That Into You.

 

5. Checks His Phone Constantly

There is nothing worse! You prepared a cute movie night or maybe a picnic in the park, you turn to your “bae” and what is he doing? Playing on his phone! Such a no-no. What exactly is he doing on that phone? For all you know, he could be swiping your best friend Courtney a “like” on Tinder. Playing on the phone shows he is more interested in what others are doing, and not you.

 

4. Never Wants To Go Out In Public

“Hey you want to go to Panera?” “Um I don’t know, not feeling it tonight”. WHAT EVEN IS THAT?  Not feeling it tonight? If a guy doesn’t want to go on a Panera date with you, then something is terribly wrong. Going out in public is very important in relationships. If he is always dancing around it, then he clearly doesn’t want to be seen in public with you.

 

3. Never Wants To Cuddle

Cuddling is a common activity in almost all relationships. There is nothing like watching Frozen, and cuddling with that special someone. However, if he is constantly putting your hands away from him and sitting with his hand crossed then you know he is not feeling it. If he’s not feeling cuddling, he’s probabyl not feeling other things, maybe even you. If you can’t cuddle with the guy, then he is not worth it.

 

2. One Word Texts

A biggest pet peeve when you start talking to someone is when you get a one word text. You send them a whole paragraph about your day or asking how they are, and they reply, “good”, “that’s fun” or the absolutely worst, “haha”. When recieving “haha”, you just want to chuck my phone across the room. One worded texts show he doesn’t care what you have to say. He just wants to shut you up or keep you happy.

 

1. Still Has Tinder

Um, What’s that still doing on there? Yes, if you see your man still has that dreaded app on his phone. Get your purse, wallet, dignity, and get up and leave. Simple as that.

 

Well, I hoped this helped. Finding a guy seems like it’s the most important thing, but really it isn’t. You could be doing something so much better like painting or listen to Taylor Swift. Speaking of Taylor Swift, maybe that will be her next hit? He’s Just Not That Into You!

 

 

Brendan Dazen was born June 10th, 1994 in Pittsburgh, Pa. As a child he particapted in such activities as soccer, dance, theater, baseball, and singing. He grew up to love theater and music so much. He even landed a "Best Newcomer" award for Peters Township High School's theater department . He now attends Point Park University for Sports, Arts, and Entertainment Management. He wanted to become a member of HerCampus because he wanted to share his thoughts and ideas of pop culture, music, and fashion with his campus, and hopefully other schools. Brendan has a strong interset in Britney Spears, Miley Cyrus, sunflowers, fashion, adventutres, photography, concerts, and dance. He hopes in the future to be a production manager.