Being a transfer student is like starting all over. That same freshman feeling comes back to haunt you. New area, new surroundings, unfamiliar faces, and a whole new type of anxiety. Just when one thought the worst was over, after all the applying, visiting, fees and moving in, now it comes down to the lonely feeling of not knowing anyone. But fear not, you are not the only one feeling this. I,too, have been there and there are many more like you.
According to the SUNY.edu website, there are more than 45 percent of baccalaureate graduates that begin as transfer students. Though it may seem like it is all bad, it does have its perks. For instance, there is actually less pressure. What I mean by saying there’s less pressure is that there is less pressure to have to declare a major or minor so early on in your sophomore year and you don’t feel as much pressure from people being standoffish to you. The moment you say “I am a transfer,” people seem to become very warm and helpful.
Here are some ways to feel like you belong, because, you do belong. Don’t forget that.
1. If and when there is an orientation
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GO! No matter how uncool it may sound or how early it is, make sure you go. The orientation brings together all the new incoming students and transfers. This means that you are all starting brand new. You can develop friendships here and explore the new grounds you are about to embark together.
2. Reach out and join student organizations.
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Not only is this the best way to build new friendships, but it is also a great way to build a resume filled with different experiences. Usually there will be a student involvement fair with tons of different clubs and organizations. There are so many that you are bound to find not only one, but a few organizations that will match your tastes. Sign up for some or all and be sure to meet and greet all of the different people there. Believe it or not, many of the people there are in the same position as you.
3. Consider your living situation
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Coming in as a transfer student may make you a little bit older than most of the students that are living on campus but that’s OK. Living on campus will help you meet people, especially if you are living in a dorm and have a roommate or suitemates. If you move off campus, you are isolating yourself from everyone right from the start, making it a little harder to meet people.
4. Sports
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Maybe there has been a type of sport that you have always wanted to play; now is the chance to do it. Whether it’s a club or varsity sport, don’t let anyone, not even yourself, tell you that you cannot join because now is the best time.
Once you have considered or have done these steps, being a transfer student will become easier. As each day goes by, you will gain more friends, more experiences, more happiness and more memories. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise; being a transfer student rules!