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Story Time: All About Bobby

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at NCAT chapter.

I know females are always saying how guys are so inconsistent and how they don’t care about anybody but themselves. Well, do I have a story for y’all…

It was Friday, February 10, 2017 and my DM’s were dry per usual. This guy (who we’ll name Bobby) DM’d me that evening and was trying to take me out, talking about how he was trying to take me to the drive in movie theater, which was cool because I’ve never been.

Mind you, this is the second time he’s asked me out, because the first time he flexed on me. Naively, I said yes to his offer and figured I’d give him a second chance since he is fine. We made a time for seven o’clock on Saturday and he told me he would talk to me before then. Cool!

(FAST FORWARD TO SATURDAY 7PM)

Here we are at 7pm, and I heard nothing from Bobby. It is now 8pm and I texted him with the emoji eyes like, “where you at?”

This man told me “7pm came and went and I didn’t hear anything from you.” Boy Bye. Then he told me, “oh we can chill and watch the game.” 

Boys are inconsistent when it comes to following through with plans. You can’t say that you’re going to take a girl out and then invite her over to watch a basketball game. Unacceptable. Guys, don’t be a Bobby. Do. Better!!!

Hi everyone! I am a sophomore at North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University who should be majoring in Weddings, but is actually a Journalism & Mass Communications student with a concentration in Multimedia. Originally I am from Woodbridge, Virginia, which is about 30 minutes south of our nation’s capital. I have lived here all my life, but I’m not afraid to branch out and explore the world. This past summer I studied abroad in Sydney, Australia to engage and immerse myself in Australian culture. The experience was phenomenal and I’m already counting down the days until I can return that beautiful country. Check out my Tumblr, Instagram, Pinterest, and Facebook.