The saying goes, long distance relationships will kill you. Much to my personal satisfaction though, I’ve learned that this is simply untrue. There’s many ways to keep a long-distance relationship going strong, and there’s no reason to be put off by the idea. Here’s a few tried and true tips for making it work:
1. Make Time
One of the most challenging things about being in a long-distance relationship is making time for your SO. It’s easy to get caught up in your own day-to-day and push off those phone calls and video chat. Don’t underestimate the power of checking in and communicating often!
2. Be an individual
Though it’s important to stay in touch when in a long distance relationship, having your own life and independence is essential. Nobody wants to be constantly glued to their phone, so get out there and get yourself busy. It’ll get your mind off missing your S.O. and give you something to tell them about later!
3. Utilize Technology
Long distance relationships are easier now than ever before due to the technology that we have access to. Whether you prefer text, FaceTime, or a traditional phone calls, figure out what communication method works best for you and your S.O. and make time for it!
4. Make Plans
Even if you don’t get to see your special someone as often as you’d like due to distance, make special plans for when you do. This gives you something to talk about and even more of a reason to be excited to see each other. It’ll also help you get through the tough times of missing each other by knowing how great it will be when you finally get to reunite.