As someone who has experienced both sides of the Hallmark Holiday (single and in a relationship), I can very much relate to the two possible moods for that special day in February.
Option 1: Valentine’s Day is 110 percent the worst possible time to be single. But whether we like it or not, it is the harsh reality for many of us. It is a huge reminder, in case we somehow forgot, that we are companionless. It’s repulsive really, couples holding hands, kissing, everywhere you look. Guys buying roses and chocolate. And there you are alone on your couch watching “Pretty Woman” and stuffing your face with chocolate strawberries and the heart-shaped pizza you bought yourself all by your lonesome.
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Option 2: There’s nothing better than being in a relationship on Valentine’s Day. Instead of dreading the holiday, you can’t wait for the day to come. Instead of being pissed off and grumpy, you’re feeling even more in love than ever and excited to see how your beau might surprise you this year; it could be a box of chocolates and flowers, an unexpected visit, a trip to the movies or even just a card. No matter how large or small the gesture, it is an excuse to drop all the stuff you have to do and just spend time with your loved one.
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Option 3: GALENTINE’S DAY. Spend the day with your girlfriends, who don’t come and go like relationships do. Buy that heart-shaped pizza and tons of chocolate and plop yourself in front of the TV to watch rom-coms all night with your BFFs. Or, like in my case, throw a Valentine’s Day party. Don’t let being single on this fake holiday bring you down. You are a strong, beautiful, independent woman who doesn’t need a man (but if you have one, that’s cool too). This holiday is all about love, so even if it’s not an intimate relationship, celebrate those in your life who you love.
Which option will you be this year?
Happy Valentine’s Day, ladies.