This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Bryant chapter.
No one enjoys havign to be in a long distance relationship. Here are our tips on how to survive the distance separating you from your loved ones:
- Understand what distance means. Whether you’re missing your parents, a significant other or a friend, realize that distance will change your relationship. Not everything will be the same because you won’t see each other as much as you’re used to. There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as you know how to work through the separation.
- Communicate. Distance means different things to different people. Make sure you keep in contact with the people close to you. Skype and FaceTime are especially great for this purpose because video chatting is the next-best thing to really seeing the other person.
- Send presents. Everyone loves receiving little packages in the mail because it means someone was thinking about you. Care packages can go a long way in reminding someone just how much you care about them.
- Have faith. Long distance relationships often suffer when one partner feels hopeless about the situation. Remain optimistic about the future and make plans for when you see each other next. Trust the other person to stay loyal to you and your relationship. In the case of a significant other, there’s never any guarantee that your partner won’t break your heart. However, doubt and mistrust will ruin any relationship fast. Remember not to stress out over something that hasn’t happened and most likely won’t happen. A lack of trust will do more harm to a relationship than anything else.
- See each other often. Long distance relationships are hard. It’s extremely important to find a way to see the other person. Traveling can be costly or time-consuming, so try and meet halfway. Seeing each other often allows you to reconnect and not feel so separated. Also, visits are always something to look forward to and help you stay optimistic. Bridging the distance is the best way to deal with the distance, even if it’s temporary.