Sami Middleton
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Pep Talks That I Should Listen to Myself: Liking My Body4/12/2013 |
Like most girls, I went through adolescence absolutely hating the way I looked. After being called “glowsticks” in gym class (thank you pale, pale legs…) and having a mouth full of braces, it took years of mental recovery in high school to somehow see that I have some redeeming physical qualities. And while some of my close friends went away to college to find miracle fitness routines that keep them looking like Beyonce (pre-Blue Ivy) the entire year, there are few things I hate more than sweating, and few things I love more than eating. Herein lies the body image problem with which so many girls here at BC struggle. As it is CARE week, I am here to offer some comical yet FOOLPROOF ways that I have discovered make me feel way better looking than any member of Destiny’s Child. Because at the end of the day, we shouldn’t have to change who we are or stop doing (or eating) the things we love because we are uncomfortable with ourselves. Somewhere down the line, it is going to be time to realize that we were made to look this way and to find the beauty in that. But until I have that moment of clarity… here are the ways that will make you feel awesome and ready for everything, every day.
1. Build-up a killer underwear collection |
Crazy Holiday Lights from Around the Nation12/18/2012 |
Some of my best guy friends were graced with the “penthouse” nine-man in Vanderslice as sophomores, and it wasn’t until only recently that I became truly, truly jealous of their common room, half kitchen, long hallway, and enormous “window room” that serves no purpose other than looking awesome. However, when I saw this infamous window room adorned in hundreds of twinkling Christmas lights, I had never seen anything so beautiful. My family, like the majority of the BC student body, takes Christmas lights very seriously. I spent so many childhood winters sitting on the roof of my first house, watching my dad cuss incessantly while setting up reindeer on the roof, swearing he would never do the light display again. Over 10 years later, my dad has yet to give in, and our new house has permanent Christmas lights that are in our siding. And while this may seem ridiculous, there is something about lighting up the outside of your house that makes Christmas even more cheerful. I now present to you the craziest Christmas lights and streets traditions from around the U.S. From the tacky to the fabulous to the incredible synchronization of these crazy families, I hope that you are able to find happiness and joy in the twinkling lights around you this holiday season. The Osborne Family Spectacle of Dancing LightsYeah, yeah, you’re probably saying “Of course this is amazing, it’s Disney World!” But the cool part of the light at Disney’s Hollywood Studios is not only that it is synchronized to our favorite Disney tunes and to an accompanying parade, but that it was all started by an actual family, the Osborne Family, in Arkansas. |
Start Talking: the 2012 Presidential Campaign10/31/2012 |
Personally, I have an enormous aversion to confrontation. I watched the presidential debates and my stomach was in knots, fearing the ensuing argument or the interruption of the mediator. Debates and political conversation make me feel uncomfortable, on edge, and frankly, a little bit cranky. In the past few months, the upcoming election has been gaining steam, brewing controversy, and developing into what may be one of the closest elections in a very long time. And in these past few months, I have found myself in many situations in which my friends or my classes have started to discuss political views, who they are planning to vote for, or other social conundrums that are associated with the election. I usually make some sort of awkward sigh or noise, return to eating in silence, or avert my eyes so that I don’t have to feel uncomfortable or even worse, have to join in on the discussion. It is about time that I, and the young voters here at BC, start talking politics. Boston College is an elite institution. We are privileged to attend a school in which our student body is educated and confident enough in this education to develop our own belief and value systems and to make our own choices. So why is it that so many of us avoid political discussions at the dinner table or remain completely neutral when civil rights are brought up in a seminar discussion? Perhaps for some it is just the sensitivity of the topics, and for others, maybe they truly believe that their vote and opinion will not make a difference in an electoral vote. |
NFL Game Days: Why You Should Be Excited for Sundays10/28/2012 |
For as long as I remember, I have woken up on fall Sunday afternoons in my home in Chicago to the sounds of ESPN SportsCenter. From upstairs, I could always hear the roar of a crowd, the booming voice of the sideline reporter, and the popping of popcorn in the microwave. And for someone who doesn’t know my family, it is easy to assume that the popcorn and increasing volume is occurring due to the hands of my father or older brother. But when I grab my Chicago Bears jersey and hop down the stairs, it is to plop down next to the biggest football fan of the household: my mother. I can’t lie to you though; it isn’t that my mom and I are eager to see how many interceptions the Packers throw or to see if Jay Cutler gets his act together that day. Sometimes, we get up on Sundays just to see Drew Brees exist (we have a huge crush on him and his adorable son). Nevertheless, NFL game days are an experience in my house, and I argue an important study break for every BC student on Sundays. Sundays are no longer just for the guys. For me, there is nothing like seeing my guy friends on game-days. There is something about seeing male testosterone at its finest, screaming at a television set and being so passionate about something that could seem so trivial, that makes games an important social event and something I look forward to every week. Whether it is your boyfriend, your crush, or just your best guy friend on campus, seeing a BC bro pull out their Patriots footie pajamas, or those lucky Giants socks they refuse to wash until good ol’ Eli gets them to another Super Bowl, watching the game with the boys is something you don’t want to miss. |
The Best of the Care Package10/5/2012 |
There is nothing quite like that package notification popping up in your inbox as you head out of that history lecture on a Wednesday afternoon. You are probably hoping for a surprise package from home or the cute earrings you ordered online off of dad’s credit card, while simultaneously praying that it isn’t just your Spanish workbook you ordered three weeks after class even started. For me, that package notification has never been a mystery. Since the second week of my freshman year, when my first care package came to Stuart, filled solely with king size Kit Kats, I knew that Momma Middz, the Lorelai to my Rory Gilmore, had mastered the art of the care package. There have been highlights, but also some pitfalls. So, whether you have severe only child syndrome like my wonderful roommate, getting three packages a week, or are here to drool over some of the goodies my dear old Ma has sent me and the roomies since that first day on Newton campus last fall, I now give you the ingredients for the perfect care package. NOTE TO PARENTS: When you ask us what you can send us at school, and we say nothing, we almost never mean it. SNACKS: My favorite candy bar, hidden underneath a giant bag of roasted almonds so my roommates still think I’m healthy and also do not know that I have candy they can steal. My mom once emptied a bag of almonds and filled it with mini-Reeses. Best surprise ever. FUN TOYS: Mom sent me Legos during finals last year. Procrastination has never been so fun. SENTIMENTAL FAMILY ITEM: A picture of the family, or just a birthday card or letter goes a long way. Mom always has a way of knowing when I’m having a bad day, and nothing beats a formally written love letter from one of my dogs. |






