Mel Petersen

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What Should I Text Back?

4/2/2013

“What should I text back?” The question every girl has had on her mind when texting that special someone. Usually the girl is texting a crush, who she doesn’t know too well yet, and all she wants to do is make a good impression and not say anything stupid. Taking too long to respond may seem as if you’re not interested, but responding right away could look desperate, and for the iPhone-users, nobody wants to be the person to initiate the typing bubbles and end up not sending anything. It’s just texting, so why is it so hard? Sometimes being yourself through texting is hard to do, and words can be misinterpreted or overanalyzed, so here are a couple tips for common scenarios if you’re wondering what you should say!

The simple “What’s up?”

Don’t just say “nothing,” because it could seem as if you’re uninterested, but don’t explain your whole life’s story either. Keep it simple, but interesting because responding; “just watching TV” every time they ask is boring. For example, if you’re doing homework say something like, “Doing some homework, but I really need a distraction before I go crazy.” This type of response engages a reply, and also shows that you want to have a conversation.

“We should hang out some time”

Campus Celebrity: Lauren Davis

3/21/2013

Name: Lauren Davis

Age: 19

Hometown: Waterford, MI

Height: 6ft.

Major: Fashion Merchandising

Minor: Event Management

After being a dancer for 12 years before high school, Lauren knew that she loved the spotlight and being on camera. Between being on stage, traveling, and dancing with the Cheetah Girls for a year, she decided it was all too much when entering high school. She became serious about athletics, but started to miss the stage and fashion side of life.

So, after being consistently told that she belonged on camera, Lauren took it upon herself to start researching modeling agencies into her junior year of high school. She had to determine which agencies were real and which ones were fake, because she knew there were a significant amount of deceptive agencies. Using her dance background, she was able to contact her friends that were also models, for advice and guidance.

Finally, Lauren found her first real agent, Renee Godin. Renee Godin was able to help Lauren build up her modeling portfolio, and help her book photo shoots, fashion shows, editorials, and any other outlet that would be interested in the type of modeling Lauren could do.

From there, Lauren’s first big break was the Neiman Marcus Fashion Show for the 2010 Fall Collection.

Campus Cutie: Andrew Hartley

2/25/2013

 

Name: Andrew Hartley

Hometown: Riverview, MI

Age: 20

Major: Accounting

Relationship Status: Taken

If you were stranded on an island, what three things would you bring?

Beer, a raft, and Flamin’ Hot Cheetos.

Boxers or Briefs?

Boxer briefs.

Where is your favorite place to hang out on campus?

South Point because that’s where the party’s at.

Blondes or Brunettes?

Blondes.

What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

Getting drunk with my friends in Detroit parking garages.

What qualities do you admire in the opposite sex?

Honesty, intelligent, funny, sarcastic, and good-looking.

What is your favorite movie:

The Departed because Jack Nicholson is a legend.

Any awesome or hidden talents:

I can play the piano.

What is your ideal or dream date?

Dinner at a sweet Italian restaurant because I love Italian food, and then a Red Wings game in the club suites.

Who is your Hollywood crush?

Rachel McAdams because she’s gorgeous.

Friend Zone vs. Love Zone

2/9/2013

 

 The question every girl wants to know the answer to: am I in the “Friend Zone”? And it’s quickly followed by: once in the Friend Zone, is it possible to get out? They seem like easy questions, but no one wants to take the leap to actually ask them. Instead, we’re all sitting around, reading into imaginary signs, and trying to find meaning behind texts that aren’t supposed to have any meaning at all.

 After all, no girl wants to be the Stage 5 Clinger, but also doesn’t want to be the girl who misses out on chances right in front of her. So, is there any way to figure it out without having to ask? The answer is no, unless you are a mind reader and in that case, you wouldn’t be asking the question in the first place!

 So, I decided to take one for the team. Someone has to be the one to ask those regrettable questions, without the fear of making a fool of themselves. After chatting with a small pool of CMU guys, here’s the break down of what’s up!

 

How does one fall into the Friend Zone?

·   The guys say a girl can fall into the Friend Zone a number of different ways. The most prominent way is when a girl doesn’t act like herself and tries too hard. The guys say that it’s cool that the girl is putting in an effort to get to know them, so they’re friend-worthy, but that’s not the type of girl they want to start any type of relationship with, because the main point is: it’s not real. *Special note the guys wanted to add: “We can tell when you pretend to like sports, so don’t do it! We will know!”

How to Wear a Button-Up

2/6/2013

 

  The “Go-To Shirt.” Everyone has one. When you don’t know what to wear, it’s always in the back of your mind. This shirt is comfortable, flattering, and seems to match everything.

 Sometimes you can even find yourself saying, “I haven’t worn this in awhile,” so you wear it again. Then one day you’re going through your Facebook profile pictures and start to realize that it shows up more than you would like it to.

 At this point, the shirt is placed in the back of your closet, in hopes that it won’t be worn again for a long time. Sooner than you would think, you’re going to be running late for a class or a meeting, and you will be throwing clothes all around your room, trying to find something to wear. For a meeting you want something that is professional, cute, and classy but for class you want comfortable, stylish, and cute. So you’re brain is going a mile a minute and you start to get stressed out.

 All of a sudden you give in and decide to pull out that go-to shirt. The shirt goes on and all that runs through your mind is the fact that you always wear the shirt, and soon people will start to notice. Here are a couple tricks for that go-to shirt, making it go from “always the same thing” to a fresh, prepared outfit. All of the tricks are designed for a button up, but the concept fits for other shirts as well.

 

 

The Neckline Cheat Sheet

1/30/2013

 

            Picture yourself in your favorite clothing store. You’re browsing the sale racks and you come across a top that you might not normally pick out. It’s different and has a weird neckline, but you like it and want to give it a try. Then you start thinking, “How would I even accessorize this?” A necklace may be too much, only a bracelet would be too little, and you feel bare if you don’t wear any type of jewelry.

            So, what do you do? You start second guessing yourself, and try to come up with reasons why you shouldn’t buy the top. The thing is, it’s an unbeatable price, so you buy it and tell yourself that you will figure out something when you’re at home.

            The top goes into your closet and you forget about it. Then one night you’re getting ready to go out, and the feeling that you’ve worn everything in your wardrobe starts setting in. Thoughts like, “I have no clothes,” or “I’ve worn this 100 times,” start going through your head. Then you find that top in the back, with the tags still on. You’re running late as it is, so you put it on and start thinking, “Why did I buy this, I can’t wear anything with it, I have nothing to wear.” Here are some helpful tips for those cute necklines that seem impossible to accessorize!

Wifey Season

1/8/2013

 

It’s that time of year again. It’s starting to get colder, the first snow is upon us, and the holidays have arrived. This time of year, right as Thanksgiving grows near, everybody starts to warm up, despite the dropping temperatures. People are in the giving mood, being thankful for what they have, and spending the extra time with loved ones to show how much they mean to them.

 This time of year also reminds us of whom we don’t have. Picture the first snow, so white, crisp, and sparkling. Then picture yourself with warm socks, cuddled in blankets, next to a fire, with a nice cup of hot chocolate. It’s suddenly 2 a.m. and a Kay Jewelers commercial comes on, the one where the guy surprises the girl with a ring, and you’re sitting there thinking, “I am forever alone.”

You suddenly realize: you don’t have that special someone to share this time with. There is no one to take home to the parents, no one to go ice-skating with, and no one to cuddle up with during a cold winter night. I think it’s safe to say we have all felt this way one time or another. We start looking for someone to share these special times with, because let’s face it; no one wants to be alone during the holidays.

No Shave November

11/26/2012

We are a little more than halfway through November, and already the beards are coming along great around campus! I’m definitely a fan of No Shave November, and beards in general. I feel as if it adds character and definition to a man. But how do girls on campus feel about this?

 After conducting a small investigation for myself, I was able to interview a few Chippewa ladies to get their perspective on this hairy time of year. Here are their feelings on beards:

 

Deanna Petkov, junior

Relationship Status: Taken

 

What are your feelings on No Shave November?

“In general, I think this time of year is great because not only does it support and raise awareness for a good cause, but it also let’s guys be themselves and go back to their manhood.”

 

Does your boyfriend participate in No Shave November?

“Yes, he also calls it ‘Movember,’ like mustache November.”

 

Where do you draw the line on beards?

“I really like scruff, but I don’t like when it gets too long and when you cuddle, it pokes you.”

 

Hannah Messer, junior

Relationship status: Single

 

What are your feelings on No Shave November?

“I mean it had a good cause, but I don’t like when guys have beards.”

 

Why don’t you like beards?

“I don’t like the way they look because it looks a little dirty and when it touches my face, it bugs me. No Shave November seems to be all unkempt beards, but I can stand a clean, well-kept beard.

 

Where do you draw the line on beards?

“I like a good, well-kept scruff. It depends on the guys though, because some look better clean shaven and some look better with a little scruff.”

 

Shelby Anderson, Senior

Relationship Status: Single

 

What are your feelings on No Shave November?

Zack Wittman

10/29/2012

Hometown: Novi, MI

Age: 20

Major: Photojournalism

Relationship Status: Single

If you were stranded on an island, what three things would you bring?

A boat, food, and water.

Boxers or Briefs?

Boxer briefs.

Where is your favorite place to hang out on campus?

Kaya, because I like the music and they have great coffee.

Blondes or Brunettes?

Redheads.

What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

A couple friends and I broke into an out of use Ford plant and set off the security system. We had to run from the cops and hide in the woods for 2 hours.

What qualities do you admire in the opposite sex?

Style and individuality.

What is your favorite movie:

Garden State and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind because they’re so strange and I like it.

Favorite food:

Grilled cheese or anything with cheese.

Any awesome or hidden talents:

No, but photography is pretty awesome.

What is your ideal or dream date?

Skinny dipping.

Who is your Hollywood crush?

Scarlett Johansson, no explanation needed.

What should girls know about you?

I’m really busy and travel a lot, so don’t take it personally.

What Zack doesn’t like:

I hate getting like 6 texts or multiple texts within a short time period.

I don’t like when girls make things complex, keep it simple.