Jen Lassen

My mom always told me, “You have to kiss a bunch of toads before you find your prince.” Not exactly the most pleasant image, but it’s been enough to get me by. At this wild, crazy, emotional place we call college, us girls have the oh-so-fun task of mining for the diamond when it sometimes feels like we’re only surrounded by the rough. That’s why I set out to truly understand what it is a Bucknell girl wants from a Bucknell guy. I talked with a number of girls on campus and gathered their thoughts about the qualities they desire in a male. Whether it’s what she craves while hooking up or the characteristics she seeks in a potential boyfriend, I feel it is entirely necessary to share these golden nuggets of wisdom with you, Bucknell-boy reader. Maybe I’m not often as charitable as I should be, but in a Cupid-like way, I feel like I’m really doing some good here. Listen up, guys, or forever hold your peace.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR IN A HOOK-UP…

What started as an annual celebration quickly turned into a day that will forever be lamented in our country. The bombings that occurred at the Boston Marathon last Monday are no doubt tragic and horrific. No one expected the bombings, especially the runners caught completely off-guard as they ran across the finish line. However, the heroic and brave acts following the bombings demonstrate the power of compassion that often take place in such sudden emergency situations.

Here are some of the most heartwarming examples of first responders in the Boston Marathon tragedy: 

●      There are reports of spectators who were first responders after the initial explosion. For example, 53-year-old Carlos Arredondo vaulted a barricade and ran straight into the cloud after the explosion to help. Arredondo grabbed torn pieces of someone’s sweater to stop the intense bleeding from a man’s leg. “I told him, ‘My name’s Carlos, you’re going to be OK, help is on the way,” said Arredondo to The Daily Beast online.

●      Businesses in the surrounding area opened their doors for respite from the hectic and crowded streets, and offered free refreshments and WiFi.  One such business, a small Mexican restaurant named “El Pelon Taquería,” tweeted “Pay only if you can” and welcomed frazzled residents and runners alike.

At a school like Bucknell where one person is more beautiful than the next, it’s hard not to feel self-conscious when springtime rolls around. When I hear the word “spring,” I immediately think, “Are my thighs ready for shorts?” “Is that little belly pouch I’ve been storing all winter ready to see the light of day?” “Does pale skin complement my not-toned muscles?” With thoughts like these floating around in my head for the past two Bucknell spring seasons, I’ve taken the liberty to create my own Bucknell Spring Fitness plan. Sure, it’s a little non-traditional, but it’s proven to yield results in no time! (*Note, I didn’t say “positive” results, just results…)

Jen’s Golden Bucknell Spring Fitness Plan Rules

Get out of the gym! You heard me…get out of the gym! With the beautiful weather we’ve been having, trade in your afternoon elliptical workout for a walk to the Freez instead. You’ll thank your body later! Which leads me to my next point…

Double up to really make a difference. In my humble opinion, one Freez is never enough. Been dying to try Health Bar, but you’re faithful to Oreo? Why not get both?! Double fisting isn’t a crime; it’s a lifestyle choice. Adjust your habits so that the more calories you’re consuming, the better!

Ahhh, House Party. There’s no other Bucknell weekend quite like it. To me, House Party is one big spring fashion show. You know you’re bound to be tagged in an infinite number of Instagram pictures from the weekend. With festivities happening all day and night, it’s essential to look your best at all times…even when things do get a little rowdy. Below are some House Party Weekend fashion tips so you don’t have to worry about making a faux pas while Super Saturday-ing or dancing your heart out at SPE. The only worry on your mind should be how exhausted you’ll be come Sunday…

FOR DAY:

o   Edgy Girly-Girl: There’s nothing I love more than a slouchy pair of denim shorts. Wear your favorite pair (or boyfriend jeans if it’s cold) with a flowy lace or embroidered tank and combat boots to toughen up the look. This unexpected combination will be sure to catch a guy’s eye even from across the backyard!

o   Sundress Season: At Bucknell, nothing says House Party like the start of “Sundress Season.” Instead of the typical sundress-and-jean-jacket combo, try a denim or cargo vest over a floral-print dress. Pair with boots or gladiator sandals for a boho-chic vibe. Alternatively, try a breezy maxi dress and load up on bangles, funky earrings, and lots of necklaces to personalize the look.