Heather Siemienas

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The Good, The Bad, The Ugly: What Men Really Think of Women’s Fashion

10/4/2012

 Female-friendly magazines like People, Cosmopolitan, and Glamour bombard its viewers with images of the latest women’s fashions: celebrities sporting designer trends, models “dressed to the nines” walking the runway during fashion week, and flashy advertisements of popular stores’ newest apparel. As a previous full-time employee of top retail chain Nordstrom, I often heard interesting comments from costumers when more “fashion forward” merchandise began to flood our sales floors; but the most interesting and sometimes comedic comments, I found, were from male shoppers viewing female fashions. I’d hear comments like, “Who would wear that?” “Why is that shirt so baggy?” or “Who needs that many straps on one shoe?” These comments made me curious: “What do men really think of what women are wearing nowadays?”
 In the spirit of Fall Fashion, I decided to take three top trends, easily recognizable from New York Fashion Week’s Fall 2012 runway, and see what the average college male thought about them. I chose to use peplum dresses, flowy blouses, and slouchy pants as my three trends, and I was careful to interview each male out of earshot of the other, to avoid opinion persuasion from their friends. And, I also showed them Google images of the trends I was referring to, in order to assure we were all on the same page. I chose three male friends who, to me, epitomize the “average college male”: not keenly aware of fashion or having a clue of what Marc Jacobs’ newest line includes, but, still opinionated in what looks great on a woman’s frame. I asked them to imagine seeing these outfits on a college girl, whether “out on the town” or walking around campus, and describe how they felt about the look. Below I’ve listed my willing interviewees: Malcolm, Eddie, and Jacob’s unedited opinions on these three Fall trends:

1. Peplum Dresses

Summer Lovin’: Can Your Romance Last Through This School Year and Beyond?

9/23/2012

It’s the fourth week of school on Syracuse’s campus: the temperature is dropping, tans are fading, and the “syllabus” days have been replaced by long lectures and exam days. But, as the distance of our summer memories continue to grow, what is the fate for relationships that started amidst the summer’s heat?
If you were lucky in love this summer and have decided your relationship is more than the stereotypical “fling,” I have a few tips from online magazine Cheeky Chicago to keep your romance blazing through the Syracuse’s arctic cold:

1) “Keep it active.” When you fell into your summer romance, a big contributor was probably the activities you two enjoyed together. Under the summer sun, it’s enticing to go outside and go to concerts or other outdoor events that are easy to come by. But when the cold sets in, don’t go into hibernation mode. Plan fun activities to participate in together like going to a museum or spending quality time with friends… maybe even a trip to the ice skating rink if your guy is up for an adventure!

2) “Keep the Vacation Mentality.” Romance flourishes in the summer when stress levels tend to be lower and time for each other is rarely few and far between. But when that busy class schedule sets in, make sure you schedule time to bond with your guy. Try to plan a small trip, or if that’s not possible, make the little things count. Even a long Skype date counts if it’s a distance relationship! Putting in the extra effort and devoting time to focus solely on your relationship, rather than your hundred-page to-do list, should keep the “spark” alive.

The Lucky One

4/22/2012

Zac Efron’s chiseled abs, the beautiful blonde heroine, steamy shower make-out scene, steamy bedroom love scene…  Efron’s chiseled abs… chiseled. abs… (okay, you get the point).  Nicholas Sparks’ latest chick flick, The Lucky One, plants these images in front of movie-goers like myself and strings together a plot that pulls at our heart strings and causes adult female viewers to giggle like tweens at Efron’s ridiculously ripped body.  But does Sparks’ new movie stir his viewers the way his ever popular The Notebook, of 2004, did?  Personally, I think not.  But, before you get too disappointed, I believe The Lucky One came nearest to The Notebook’s allure in Sparks’ recent string of novel-made-movies.

Zac Efron plays Marine Logan, who has done three tours in Iraq and is finally home, alive and well, despite cheating death more than once during his wartime duties.  He is unsure why he survived when so many of his comrades died, but he feels a picture he found in the dirt before his first near-death experience may have something to do with it.  A wallet photo of an attractive blonde woman standing in front of a lighthouse, with “keep safe” scribbled on the back, was like finding “an angel in the middle of Hell” Logan says.  With nothing but the lighthouse to piece together the location of this “angel,” he makes his new mission to find and thank her for the hope and safety her picture seemed to provide him.

Logan travels by foot from Colorado to Louisiana and miraculously finds the woman in the picture, Beth (Taylor Schilling), ultimately working for the dog kennel she keeps with her grandmother, played by Blythe Danner.  It doesn’t take long before sparks fly between Beth and Logan, but their budding romance soon finds trouble as Beth’s ex-husband, who is also sheriff of the town, threatens to take custody of Beth’s young son, Ben, should she continue the relationship.

Napping: The Science of Preventing a Zombie Apocalypse

4/15/2012

We’ve all done it: the all-nighter, caffeine overload “fix”, or measly hour of rest to carry us through our day.  Whether it’s during finals week or within the typical busyness of the school week, we’ve all experienced the Zombie apocalypse on Syracuse’s campus from time to time: you know, the half-alive students whose bloodshot eyes and dark circles make them castable for horror flicks like The Night of the Living Dead.  And, because most of us are not going to turn in our assignments late, bomb our next test, or even better, give up our remnants of a social life to catch up on lost sleep, what is a person to do?  You know what scientific research says?  “Take a nap!”

Research studies have touted the benefits of napping for years, claiming it increases alertness, improves memory retention, aids productivity, and bolsters your immune system.  But if you’ve never jumped on the “nap bandwagon” and find yourself full of excuses like “I don’t have time” or “I feel more tired after I nap,” I’d like to counter your fears with facts:  Did you know that when studies tested the benefits of a 5, 10, 20, and 30-minute nap, that the 10-minute nap was actually the most effective?  Not only does the 10-minute nap prevent you from feeling groggy afterwards since you were in the lightest stage of sleep, Stage One, but you also reap the greatest rewards by sleeping this length of time.  For example, perks include alertness that can be felt up to two and a half hours post-nap, as well as the many other benefits of napping, listed earlier.  With improved performance that lasts this length of time, I think we can all find 10-minutes (which we probably would have utilized as our ‘facebook break’ anyway) to enjoy a catnap!
 

To Fit In or Stand Out? : Honoring Your Inner Style Diva

4/10/2012

When it comes to fashion, a walk through the Syracuse Quad on a fall day is likely to summon images of female students scurrying to class, donning their classic North Face, Uggs, and leggings (and their double shot Starbucks coffee if you want to throw that into the mix).  With every passing fashion “twin,” these women begin to look more and more identical, each of them seeming to lose their personal uniqueness behind these uniform clothing items.  And, I can’t help but wonder if these staple items are worn because each girl who wears them honestly adores them or if blending in is just simpler than standing out.  Personally, I believe it to be the latter, because as one who is guilty of the “I-look-like-every-other-Syracuse-girl’s-wardrobe-twin” charge, who doesn’t fear walking into a room and having a person (okay, most likely a fellow female) look at your ensemble and think, “Does she think that outfit is cute?” 
 
Wouldn’t it be freeing if you could wake up and dress without thought of what people would think of you: your only concern being representing yourself and your mood that day best?  Well, there are brave souls out there who do just this, and one of them is one of my dear friends and my personal style hero: Katie.  Katie’s wardrobe is arguably the most distinct and unique I have ever come across, and it complements her personality perfectly.  Katie describes her style as “girly mixed with punk,” and when we met for this interview, she was sporting a white, lace top paired with combat boots and tights: not a likely match, but totally funky and chic on Katie.
 

Cupid in Another Realm: Can Love Be Found in Cyberspace?

4/1/2012

It’s my senior year of college.  I’m at a campus surrounded by cute guys.  I’m social.  I go to bars.  I go to parties.  Where. The. Hell. Are. All. The. Dateable. Men?  If I had a dollar for every time I heard someone tell me: “All the good ones are gay or taken” I would be one wealthy young lady.  But in all seriousness, for those of us single ladies who are interested in finding our life-long love (cue the hopeless romantics) or even just a great male companion, where do we go to find these guys?  Undeniably, the Syracuse college campus does in fact provide opportunities to meet lots of college men, but are these environments really the ones where ‘Mr. Right’ will be found? 
 
Some people do get lucky and find love in the college setting, but in my experience, the guys (cute as they may be) who drunkenly come up to me and other girls during Chuck’s last call are probably not ‘let’s bring you home to mom and dad material.’  And, although others find love within the classroom setting of their respective majors, some programs are certainly less conducive to meeting men than others; for example, my Musical Theatre major provides me with numerous male comrades who are also, well, gay.  But whatever your major, if you are frustrated in your search for love, I may have discovered your silver lining: OkCupid.
 
If you haven’t heard of this site before, fear not, and if you are familiar with it and have preconceived notions, hear me out.  OkCupid is an online dating website, similar to the popular Match.com or EHarmony, except instead of the steep monthly fees charged by the afore-mentioned, OkCupid is 100% free.  Although I was skeptical upon its suggestion to my fellow forlorn, male-deprived Musical Theatre (MT) cronies, our friend assured us this ‘OkCupid’ was legitimate.  Curious as always, I decided to do some investigative work of my own…
 
Subject #1: Bailey: