Brooke Hofer
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 The 7 Categories He Puts You In (& How to Break Out)5/23/2013 |
Most collegiettes would agree that stereotyping people is ultimately more hurtful than helpful. Unfortunately, making assumptions and categorizing others is something we sometimes do even if we don’t mean to. It isn’t uncommon for a collegiette to stereotype a guy when she first meets him: “Even when I try not to stereotype a guy, I catch myself doing it,” says Alana, a freshman from the University of Kansas. “If I see a guy with an expensive watch, I’ll assume he’s wealthy. If I see a guy wearing a shirt with a stain, I’ll assume he’s a slob or lazy. But that doesn’t make it true necessarily.” The frat guy, the momma’s boy, the dead beat, the womanizer, and the obsessed video gamer are just of the few of the categories we put guys in… but what about the categories they put us in? Are there things we can do to avoid being stereotyped at all? How do you get out of a stereotype rut once a guy has mentally put you there? These can be tricky obstacles, so Her Campus has broken down the seven main categories he puts you into and has provided tips on how to dodge them! 1. “She doesn’t know how to have fun.” You’re most likely to end up in this category if you’ve spent every recent weekend in the library. Keeping up with academics and activities is awesome, and never something you should sacrifice. If you’re interested in a guy, though, you need to show him that you can take a break from the books every once in a while and devote some attention to him. |
 Being Bisexual in College: Two Collegiettes' Experiences5/15/2013 |
Though many collegiettes identify as bisexual, many others don’t know much about this sexual orientation at all. We talked to two collegiettes about their experiences with bisexuality in college. They directly respond to some of the myths and misunderstandings surrounding bisexuality. What does being bisexual mean exactly? Does everyone who is bisexual choose to identify that way? How does it affect your dating life in college? How do others react to it? What is it like to be bi in college? What is Bisexuality? According to the Bisexual Resource Center (BRC), the definition of bisexuality varies depending on whom you ask. The BRC defines bisexuality most generally in this way: “Someone who has had sexual experience with or even just attractions to people of more than one sex can be described as bisexual, but may not identify that way. Likewise, one can identify as bisexual regardless of sexual experience.” So, the definition of bisexuality is loose, but it generally entails being attracted to both men and women. Her Campus talked to two collegiettes about their experiences with being bisexual in college. One collegiette, Alyx, actually identifies as pansexual and therefore doesn’t see gender as a factor in her attraction to others (similar to bisexuality). The other collegiette, Hannah*, identifies as bisexual. Here are some of their thoughts on being bi in college: The Dating Scene What is dating or finding potential partners like? Is it easier or harder to find people to go out on a date or hook up with? |
 Guys' Take On: Staying Together Over The Summer4/23/2013 |
It’s the final countdown. You’ve begun fantasizing about handing in your last final and kissing this semester goodbye permanently. You’re thinking about packing up your stuff and visiting all your favorite spots one more time. Suddenly, a queasy feeling starts to creep up on you. Why the added anxiety? Well, kissing the semester goodbye also means kissing your guy goodbye – especially if your hometowns or summer plans are nowhere near each other. It’s the bittersweet part of summer. On the one hand, you get the feeling of accomplishment from finishing classes. On the other, you have the added stress of answering the ultimate question: Do you stay together over the summer, or put things on hold? The good news is you aren’t alone in feeling this way. Collegiettes everywhere face this same dilemma every year. Because every relationship is unique, there is no “right” answer. And it can be especially difficult when you can’t quite put a finger on how your guy feels about it. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could just be inside of his head for five minutes to figure out what he wants to do? Well, we don’t have psychic abilities, but Her Campus does have the next best thing: we’ve compiled quotes and opinions from guys across the country on summer relationships! |
 BAKE FOR BOSTON at Speaker's Circle Friday!4/17/2013 |
Hello Collegiettes,
In light of the recent heartbreaking events that occurred at the Boston Marathon, Her Campus Mizzou would like to bring special attention to one of the relief efforts being organized here on campus. This Friday, from 12 p.m. - 4 p.m. in Speaker's Circle, members of Kappa Delta sorority will be selling baked goods and pinwheels with all proceeds going to Massachusetts General Hospital emergency medicine and trauma as well as the victims of the Boston Marathon attacks. We highly encourage and hope that all of our readers to stop by and donate to this relief effort in support of the victims. For more information on how you can help, check out this USA Today article with multiple relief efforts.
Thank you, Her Campus Mizzou |
 LOL: Collegiettes' Technology-Related Dating Bloopers (& How to Recover)4/5/2013 |
Let’s pretend your class is about to start and your professor is super strict about having no cell phones or laptops in class. But wait! You have to (really quickly) tell your friend about the cute thing your crush just texted because you want her advice on how to respond after class. You type it up and hit send with 15 seconds to spare. |
 5 Quick Steps To Make Your Workout More Effective3/31/2013 |
Being fit and living a healthy lifestyle is ideal for any collegiette. However, if you’re not a fitness guru it can be tricky to find ways to give a boost to your workout. It can be easy to slip into the same routine each day! Her Campus has five quick and easy ways (complete with some sweet workout moves) to take your fitness to the next level. 1. Put Some Weight Behind It A cardio workout is pretty straightforward. Treadmills or elliptical machines aren’t too intimidating, so it can be easy to get into a routine of hitting them up and nothing else. As collegiettes, we often ignore the importance of using weights, as they are stereotypically a “guy” workout. This is a mistake! “I know that lifting weights will get me closer to my ideal body,” says Kaleigh, a senior from Louisiana State University, “but I would have no idea how to approach a weight machine. They probably are simple, but I feel like I’d make a fool of myself if I tried to figure them out!” The Trick: You don’t have to approach the machines to get some good strength training in. (But if you’re feeling brave, check out this article from Her Campus about the weight machines at the gym!). Start simply by doing combination moves with manageable 5-8 lb. dumbbells. Mary Perez, a personal trainer from IronWorks Fitness in St. Louis, has three easy dumbbell moves that will be sure to work you out: |
 Collegiettes' Best & Worst Valentine's Day Dates2/11/2013 |
Depending on the circumstances, Valentine’s Day can have mixed results. Sometimes, it means a day devoted to romance between you and your sweetheart. Other times, a collegiette can be left wondering if Cupid’s arrow hit the wrong mark. Regardless, we all have our ups and downs when it comes to February 14th and our experiences make for great stories! Here are some V-Day dates that have had a lasting effect, for better or for worse: “My boyfriend and I have now been together for 4 1/2 years. Last year we decided that for Valentine's Day we were going to take our first road trip somewhere. We decided to spend the weekend in Washington, D.C. We went to a very nice sushi dinner, then went to see the Wizards play the Spurs (Go Spurs Go!), and then took the long way back to the hotel so we could see some of the city. The next day we went sightseeing and went to museums. Maybe it seems nerdy, but it was so fun to be away and be by ourselves. I can definitely say that weekend made us fall even more in love.” – Mel, Junior, James Madison University Lesson: Taking time to explore with a quick romantic getaway could lead to lasting love! |
 Movie Night: Wonder Women!1/27/2013 |
Join the Feminist Student Union for a free screening of Wonder Women!: The Untold Story of American Superheroines at 7 p.m. this Thursday! The screening will take place in Jesse Wrench Auditorium, located in Memorial Union South. This amazing film just screened at Citizen Jane Film Festival and follows the fascinating evolution of Wonder Woman, Xena, and Lara Croft (among others)! Bring a friend to enjoy the movie, popcorn, and candy! |
 Dalton Preston '1512/14/2012 |
By Shelby Muff
Ladies, get to know this hunk in time for the holidays. He’s got a good heart and an even better gift list. Who doesn’t love a giver during this time of year? And he’s single for the season, too. Name: Dalton Preston Hometown: Trenton, MO Major: Business (emphasis in Finance) Year: Sophomore Relationship Status: Single Words to live by: "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle. Role Model: Jesus Favorite Study Spot: The Student Center Dream Job: Anything that would entail traveling the world. Most Memorable Moment: This one is tough. I guess high school graduation. Favorite Holiday: Christmas The Ideal Girl: Nice, smart and athletic. Good-looking wouldn't hurt either. The perfect present to give away: Love Best Winter Memory: Sledding, ice skating and playing hockey on my dad's farm when I was young. If you could receive any Christmas gift what would it be and why? A billion dollars. I could do a lot of positive things and change a lot of lives with money like that. |
 Campus Plant Walk12/12/2012 |
Join the Mizzou Botanic Garden on a plant walk at 9:30 a.m. on Saturday, Jan. 5, beginning in room 2206 ABC in the Student Center. Be sure to dress for the potentially cold weather and bring your camera. Enjoy the winter walk with former Georgia football Coach Vince Dooley and Georgia horticulture Professor Michael Dirr. Call 573-882-4240 for ticket prices and more information.
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